Guys are dumb...

Let me start off by saying that not all men are assholes - some are just dumb, and those that are dumb aren't dumb all the time - they do sleep. I kid, sort of. I can't put a percentage on it, but I'm pretty sure you've heard from at least 10 people that MEN ARE ASSHOLES or MEN ARE DUMB!!

No I'm not a feminist, I'm a wife. And, as a wife who's been with the same man for 15 years, I've pretty much seen and heard it all. I love my husband to death, but goddamn I want to hit him sometimes, just until the white meat shows. (jk, jk, jk)

I know it's not just me. Because simply put - we(men and women) don't speak the same language. Here's an example; I've been sick for a couple of days now and I don't get the same treatment that I'd give him if he were in my situation, which can make me bitter toward anything he may do. I know it's crazy - but women are crazy right?

What I'm saying is: Why should I have to ask him to bring me medicine or tissue? He should just do it or at least offer. Especially when I go out of my way to make homemade chicken soup for him and make sure he's comfortable when he's sick. All I'm asking for is the same amount of courtesy and compassion. Why is that so hard? Am I asking for too much? Am I being a baby? No goddammit I'm a woman and a wife! I deserve at least that much.

Sometimes it just seems like he doesn't care or love me right. Luckily, I know that bastard loves me - -he shows me in other ways. I know it sounds like I'm making excuses for his lack of actions, but, its the truth I know he loves me. He just needs to step up his game. So what do I do? How do I learn to speak his "language" so he get's it.

I think sometimes that men get comfortable with whatever lifestyle they currently have and don't see it fit to change unless some drastic measures are taken. I could have one of those long talks about why I'm upset blah, blah, blah. But why? I'm already drained. I have no interest in becoming emotionally drained on top of me being sick. So in the meantime..I'm being bitchy cause he's being an asshole and doesn't even realize it. Ohhh but I'll remember this for when he get's sick the next time. We all know that some men can be babies when they are sick - I'll be more than happy to play the asshole when he does.